Design Your Ideal Relationship

Have you ever noticed in your relationships or seen in others that relationships seem to operate in cycles?

Stage 1: Is that you meet someone, it's all really exciting, you fall in love and then......Stage 2 occurs....

Stage 2. They turn out to be just like all the rest!!?  You wonder how did that happen and then go into Stage 3

Stage 3. Is what can be described as "Moving on". This is where you spend a fair amount of time with friends and family who confirm for you, compound and support the idea that the other person wasn't right for you, they the one that has lost out, you're much better off without them anyway. This then makes you feel much better and gives you the focus and energy for Stage 4.

Stage 4. Here you spend the next 6 months demonstrating to that other person at every possible opportunity just how much you HAVE "Moved ON"!!!? Of course we can only hope that they are not better at Stage 4. Than you!!? Then once again we are ready for Stage 1.

**WARNING** Have you noticed yet that within this repeating cycle there is only one common factor???......YOU.

We are all looking for our ideal relationship, some people think it's to be happy but the truth of it is we are looking for wholeness, that is male/ female energy in balance and in harmony, A relationship where we are working together, nuturing each other for mutual beneficial and a gloriously  fulfilled future.

The mistake that many people make is they are looking for a partner to give them something that they are unwilling to give themselves. We want a partner to be supportive, yet we undermine ourselves, we are looking for a partner to understand us and accept us for who we truly are, yet we have no real clarity as to what we want or of uncritical self acceptance and of course we want  our partner to love us, yet find it hard to acknowledge that we love ourselves. When we are only willing to give ourselves so little, we find it very hard to conceive of another divine being giving us so much.

Who we believe we are and what we believe we deserve will be created into our reality, we by need must deliver on our beliefs.
These internal barriers are the self limiting beliefs and negative emotions from the past filtering and creating our experiences in the now!! These are the limitations that must be recognised, understood, faced head on and ultimately let go off. This is your year, it is time at long last to give yourself permission to be the marvellous divine unique you.

When you change what you believe about yourself and your unconsciously held beliefs as to what you deserve then you will
start to be attracted to and attract to yourself a different type of partner than that old stereotype that has been your cycle to date. When you start to entertain the possibility that you are actually the person your heart says that you are, the mountains you perceived to have been in the way of your destiny will be proven to be merely hills easily overcome, as the truth of your ability to love and be loved will be revealed.

Realise now that the attainment of your relationship dreams is one of the most life-altering acts you could ever perform. When standing outside the door of your destiny with a true belief and understanding of all that you want, and you are willing to knock long enough and hard enough, it's only a matter of time before that door will be opened for you.

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