Making a Difference In Your Relationships

As a result of one of our recent trainings, we received some incredible feedback that has prompted us to share with you some fantastic insights for improving relationships.

In our trainings and seminars we meet lots of men and women from diverse backgrounds who are very successful, they have accomplished careers, their finances are in good shape and they are achieving great results in other areas of their lives. However there does seem to be a common thread, nearly all them tell us the same thing. They tell us that their fulfillment and ultimate contentment in life can only be found in one thing! And that is the emotional value of their personal relationships and family relationships.

This is what one of students said literally hours after completing our training:

“......had the longest chat with my Mum on the phone for over half an hour after the course. I haven’t managed more than 3 minutes for the past 10 years. Wow! Letting go off anger really worked. I am at peace. We even laughed together. Imagine that! Thank you”

What a fantastic result for them both and here is the key that created the difference that made the difference.

Negative emotions that you hold onto, like Anger, Sadness, Fear, Hurt & Guilt will without doubt distort what it is that you choose to see; it will cause you to filter your interactions with other people in an “unreal” way. What this means is that you end up filtering a situation or interaction in a way that delivers you a result that you have unconsciously predetermined to be true. If we believe that someone doesn’t love us or even worse hates us, then we have a need to be right and we will unconsciously filter all that happens in our interactions with that person in a distorted way to prove to ourselves that we are right. Have you ever accused someone of not loving you and they have been dumb founded to understand why you would feel that way? If you feel unloved maybe it’s because you believe yourself to be unlovable?  Unresolved negative emotion trapped within you will be mirrored back to you in your interactions with others.

The interesting and indeed empowering thing is when you make a change within you, then people and situations outside of you change also. If you want your world to be different you can only change you and when you change you the world that you choose to perceive changes dramatically. Things don’t change.... people change and it all starts with you. Letting go of old negative emotions and limiting beliefs is far easier than you may think and our testimonials support that you too can create these same powerful positive shifts in all of your relationships as well.

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