What Do Limiting Decisions Do To Us?

Limiting decisions we made in the past or limiting beliefs that we hold onto keep us from being able to design and create the future that we truly want. For some people in the past they have made a decision that it wasn’t ok to feel great about themselves or that is wasn’t ok to experience the magnificent divine being that they are. For some people in the past they may have made the decision that it wasn’t ok to be brilliant, or to express themselves clearly. For some people they may have made decision somewhere in past about not being able to have a great relationship. Maybe one of these resonates with you or you know someone like it.

This is important: All our conscious and unconscious decisions filter our awareness. All our limiting decisions can restrict us from experiencing the full range of options and choices that we really available to us. An example would be parking spaces. I am one of those people that will always find a parking space for my car! I made that decision a long time ago. And you know people who’ll tell you the same thing and other people who will tell you the opposite! They’ll say “Oh, I never find a parking space for my car!” In fact if they drove into a half empty multi-storey car park, they wouldn’t notice there were spaces available!  

The fact is that the decisions that we’ve made in the past, run our lives now, in the present, and also in our future. So the question is, what kind of decisions have you made in the past, that limit you, that you want to get rid of now?

People make decisions all the time and often many of them are quite bizarre. Silly decisions like, “It’s not ok to make enough money!” How would that really serve you?? It is really important for you to know that in fact this is an abundant universe. It is impossible for you to not make enough money, particularly if you are living in a free country in the western world. What prevents you from making money are simply the decisions that you’ve made about yourself in the past. For example, “I’m not good enough”, “No one in our family makes a lot of money” or “money is no good” etc

If you had made a decision in the past like this, ie that it wasn’t ok for you to make a lot of money. Then an incredible financial opportunity came your way, you would miss it! Simply because you would be focussed (probably unconsciously or consciously) on the looking for the reasons why it wouldn’t work or you would be looking in all the wrong places.

To give you another example, let us take relationships. If you’d made the decision that you’re not the type of person that have relationship work for them and someone who is absolutely perfect for you comes into your life. You will never notice them because you’ll be focussed on waiting for the relationship you are maybe in to fail.

A give away to you having made a limiting decision about things that you want to do or be, is when hear yourself say “can’t”. For example, “I can’t have a long term relationship” or “I can’t have the perfect relationship”. Think about it now, how many times do you say to yourself “I can’t have….” or “I can’t be…..” or “I can’t do….”

Our past limiting decisions that we have made prevent us from making decisions, now, in the present that make it possible for us to design and create the future the way that we want it. It’s those limiting decisions from the past that we want to get rid of from our past

I wonder,did you ever decide something like you’re not good enough or that you are slow at learning or that you always have bad luck or that people don’t like you?

Decisions like those keep you limited. Consider what decisions you have made in the past that are limiting you? What are the kind of decisions that you need to clear that will allow you to design and create the future that you truly want. There might be some decisions about you and your abilities that are preventing you from having what you want in your life. Consider all the limiting decisions you have made in your life. What’s holding you back? What kind of limiting decision do you want to let go of?

During our NLP Practitioner Training the Time Line Therapy® segment teaches you to get rid negative emotions and limiting decisions, identify and then motivate yourself with a compelling future that will have much better chances of coming true. Contact us